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Post by bia2209 on Sept 3, 2006 0:29:44 GMT 3
That is hilarious...I'll have to keep it in mind next time I am trying to get rid of a boyfriend lol...I'm happy to see that people seem to be warming to this whole confessions idea...
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Post by iman on Sept 3, 2006 17:01:24 GMT 3
i am warming to this thread too.....thanks bia and everyone else who has confessed
i will try sometime too!!!! when i ahve developed somme bottle!!!!!!!!!!! :0
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Post by Annie on Sept 4, 2006 12:21:47 GMT 3
LMAO I am loving this thread ;D ;D ;D Katrin seriously, that bodyguard story is absolutely hilarious!!!!!!!! ;D ;D ;D Re: lies, I agree with Katrin, noone can live without them. I have to admit as a kid I was a walking liar, I lied all the time, I invented things that never existed and told stories that never took place. I lied to my Mum about my grades, later I realised that it was her bloody fault at the end of the day because anything less than an A was a total flop for my mother, so I was scared to even come home with Bs. The worst part of it all was obviously the fact that all lies get uncovered and punishment is much worse than it would have been had I told the truth  Nowadays, I lie too...I mean sometimes you are put in a situation when you have to and there is nothing I can do about it. Like the other day for example, my Dad phoned and invited me and Dima (hubby for those who don't know lol ) to have dinner with my parents and some family friends. Now I obviously said yes because I don't get to see my parents that much and those family friends have a son I have been friends with for ages, he lives in Canada and now came to Moscow for holidays. Now my friend's Dad is very weird and can be very unpleasant at times. I have grown immuned to his black sense of humour with years but my Dima simply cannot stand the guy. So he begged me to let him not to go... so I had to lie to my parents and the others that Dima had to work when he was home watching TV  You see I can't tell my Dad that Dima hates his friend because that would hurt him but I cannot torture Dima either to spend an evening with a person who makes him sick..so I chose to lie... and situations like this one happen all the time I think sometimes lies are a necessity |
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Post by bia2209 on Sept 4, 2006 17:23:38 GMT 3
;D ;D New chapter...new topic to throw in the mix. "How soon is too soon to fall in love?" Do you believe in love at first sight? Coup de foudre, colpo di fulmine...do these things really exist? Or do you have to truly get to know someone before you can know what it means to love them? Happy confessing  |
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Post by Annie on Sept 5, 2006 10:57:04 GMT 3
Never ever have I believed in love at first sight until... Here is a little story for you. A friend of my mother had been trying to set me up with this guy for years, she was telling me all about how nice he was and how I had to meet him I was young, studying in Malta and really couldn't care less, I never approved of long-distance relationships, I had one in my life and it ended up in a huge heartbreak so there was no way I was getting into another one. When I got back to Russia for good my mother's friend phoned again with the same story I thought she would have quit after 3 resultless years but hey she was a stubborn woman. After long debates I decided to give in and meet the guy just to get rid of her So one evening me, her and this guy went out for dinner. When I got home that night my mom asked me how it went. I told her "If he phones me back, I think I will marry him". 11 months later there was a wedding. 7 years later he still makes me the happiest woman on this planet ;D ;D ;D |
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Post by bia2209 on Sept 5, 2006 15:27:19 GMT 3
Awww that is so cute Annie.
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Post by katrin on Sept 5, 2006 17:58:08 GMT 3
Annie, such a sweet story!!!! ;D  And love at the first site. Actually all my problems start at this point. I think I have a vey strong intuition, and therefore I fall in love (well, was it love, I'm not that sure now... ) at first site. May be that's wrong - and after each quarrel I think it is - but still I can do nothing about it. I see the guy, I like him, and that's the moment when it all starts. As a matter of fact, I think all this "love at first site" thing isn't the matter of belief, you just do it or not... I do. Always. ;D |
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Post by tina on Sept 5, 2006 22:24:53 GMT 3
Love at first sight  First thing, u have to know about me – I wear glasses. I don’ see good-and that is truth. I see some things too late, or I don’t pay enough intention but love at first site no way! I don’t tryst guy’s too much (experience is a great thing lol) so that is not possible for me! You see in years I managed to train my feelings-I am not showing it open at first because every time I did that I was hurt! That is not a good thing. My first boyfriend was a guy from neighbored-every girl was in love in him and me too. And that was love at first site. I was in 5 th grade in primary school and is 4 years older than I m. When I was in 1 st grade in high school, we started to be “friends”. He didn’t get on any univ. and he decided to stay in city so we spent a lot of time together. Time after time we become girl and boy. And we were together till I was ready to go to univ. I always dreamed to go to univ. and study and he didn’t not. He wonted to get married and have children and me-no way (I wont to have children and a husband but not at that time). I had other plans in my life. So we broke up after 4 years. My first love and my first everything was such and ash*** at the end that I spent months and months crying. I was so hurt by him, his attitude –we were so long together and on the end, I could not recognize that person who I loved. So I went on univ., long time after founded a new boyfriend and life went on. Thanks to him, I become a stronger person because promised to my self that I won’t cry AGAIN over a guy .And can u believe that even now when I go home( rare occasion) and when I see him my heart beets like crazy! Maybe that is why I don’t like going back, but everything have good and bad side! Life moved on, I grow up and I still didn’t’ fall in love at first site (if we don’t count Marat here-that was love at first site).But who knows what tomorrow might bring!!!!! |
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Post by bia2209 on Sept 6, 2006 11:37:46 GMT 3
Love at first sight? I love the romantic ideal implied but I am not sure it is totally possible. I think you can see someone and have an immediate connection or a gut feeling. But is that love? I have my doubts. I think that it can eventually grow into that.
If you truly love someone, it has to be because you've seen them insides out, at their best and at their worst.
Like Tina, I don't trust guys to easily and I've found that some times we love the idea of people more than we actually love them. I think it takes time to fall in love but at the same time you can't force the feelings.
Love isn't clinical that way. So basically the only thing you can do is trust your instincts and listen to your heart.
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Post by bia2209 on Sept 6, 2006 11:40:30 GMT 3
;D ;D I see Annie has just posted a new chapter...so for once it's not going to take me two days to reveal the new topic...lol "Are eyes really windows to the soul?"  How much can you tell by looking someone in the eyes? Can you tell their true nature, their feelings and deepest thoughts? Or do you only see what you want to be there? |
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Post by Annie on Sept 6, 2006 11:56:46 GMT 3
Eyes huh??? I'll be honest, I think this is a whole load of bull if you ask me LOL ;D ;D ;D I mean yeah, eyes reflect the way a person feels and if two people are close it's a totally different story. Like me and hubby for example, sometimes he just looks at me and says nothing and I would go "I love you too", because I know that that is exactly what he is thinking...it's totally in his eyes. With strangers it's a different story, totally. I mean people can be really cheeky and lie their ways into your heart and soul and if you really wanna believe something, you are usually very good at convincing yourself that things are exactly the way you want them to be... On the other hand some people totally have no idea how to lie and whenever they do, their eyes always let them out ... Difficult to say, but in general I'd rather look for other things and observe the behaviour before I actually start reading the eye signs |
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Post by varia on Sept 7, 2006 21:23:51 GMT 3
I'm with Annie on this one... It really depend on person and/or situation. For example, I'm a good lier, and I mean really good ;D. You can look me in the eyes forever but if I want to deceive you, believe me, I will... Maybe I should have been an actress (or politician ) Good thing is I lie only when I absolutely have to... you know, the white lies... On the other hand, I think that the closer you are to a person, more you can "read" from their eyes... But also if you are close to someone you can "read" from many other things, soo eyes are not crucial... Conclusion: Look for clues on what someone is like in more different things, not just eyes... |
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Post by bia2209 on Sept 8, 2006 0:52:45 GMT 3
I'm tend to agree.
Eyes can only be windows to the soul, if you have an idea what's there already.
WIth time and with a certain connection people can learn to communicate just by looking at each other.
But if you have no idea of a person's true nature, looking in their eyes is not going to help you figure it out.
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Post by katrin on Sept 9, 2006 17:43:40 GMT 3
Hmmmmmmm, eyes . Do they lie? ?? "I won't deny, my hips don't lie", that's what I recalled first But still what's with the eyes??? Actually I think that you can never know something from somebodies eyes. Why? Just imagine only eyes looking at you, and NOTHING more. Will you be able to say, are they kind, angry, suspicious, loving, hating, stupid or smart? I think no. It's the question of analysing all person's actions together. The problem is that more often than analysing we listen to our intuition, and it can be mistaken. And if you're an experienced I won't say liar, but an experienced actor, you can lull everyone's vigilance=)))) ;D ;D By the way, the new chapter was great. And, Ladies, what's the new topic? |
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Post by bia2209 on Sept 10, 2006 0:55:29 GMT 3
I see my timing is perfect...sorry i'm late with the new topic for ya...but c'est la vie.
"What is the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?"
Was it just a little thing that melted your heart?
Or was it some completely over the top gesture that made you feel special?
btw the way katrin..glad you liked the new chapter ;D
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