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Post by Dina on Apr 15, 2007 13:24:27 GMT 3
oh reese!oh reese!now i need more advices!oh davis you wise women ya have to tell me what to do now!!!!!!!he picked me yesterday and we went to have dinner, very nice place and he was so lovely and charming!so funny! and a real gentlemean he asked me to choose the table a,d when the waiter brang the menu he asked me if he could advice me becoz he's used to the place!ok all of this doesn't matter!but there are two things that mattered for me last night:in the middle of the evenig i heard a man from the orchestra introducing"Mlle Dina who's gonna sing to our pleasure "La vie en rose" " i was like c...!omfgh what the hell is it! he looked at me mischeciously and said I really don't know what is all about!liar!!!!!!so i tried to escape from what i tought will be my public shame as the orchestra men came and took me by the hand to the scene!iI was just freaking out, especially that i haven't sang in front of a real public since I was 8!and above all to sing Edith Piaf in front of the French which is for them a total monument!so i just sang in the first i was a liitle bit shaky but then i calmed down and actually enjoyed especially since i noticed that the peole were pleased!and he was cheering like in football match, i really liked that!(maybe i should give up on medicine and try myself in music!)so I came back to my place with the enthusiastic applause,and he was full of compliments!really nice guy but I was still wondering how he knew i was able to sing!and to sing that song!he admitted that he'd oveheared me once with my schoolmates!(in general i arrive pretty soon to class with some friends and yes it happens to me sing,lowdly!)looks like he was hearing at the door and appreciated!lol!then i turned red which happens to me usually and he added :"you're so lovely when you turn red!"omfg!i was decided to not let my emoting involved and that i have tu show limits in our "simple frienship" so i went on some polite indifference!lol!it was pretty late when he took me" back home and firmly said:"i know your point of view about a ''possible us" and i pretty much respect it and understand it!but i always get what i want and i really want ya,that's why i'll give this all the patience i gat inside of me!"omfg i was completely shocked all what i managed to say was "oh" ohhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!what's wrong with me and my messed life!ok don't need to say that i came back to my flat with thousands of stars and butterflies on the eyes!and oh i forgot he gently kissed me on the cheek!oh lord!believe me i wanted mooore!
so here you are it's what happened last night don't hesitate letting some adveces!!!!!!!!
OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by davis on Apr 15, 2007 13:58:54 GMT 3
OMG, that guy is too cheesy to be true! I really can't give you advise, dina; I'm in my late 30s and this crap wouldn't have impressed me anymore. I simply can't believe a grown up man with a shiny career reduces himself to falling hopelessly with a girl so many years his junior! Seems all VERY calculated. But: If in doubt, vote for the accused. I could obviously be very wrong here. Have you tried to do some research on him? Does he date students frequently? Oh, just have fun! Be prepared to get hurt, though...  |
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Post by Dina on Apr 15, 2007 14:08:01 GMT 3
no, from what i learned he didn't get used to date students!and well maybe you're right and he's calculated everything!i think i have to tell him to not try it anymore with me!thanx davis!
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Post by reese on Apr 15, 2007 15:43:23 GMT 3
OMG dina a really bad situation I don´t really know what to advise you but what do you want? I mean are you looking for a serious realtionship? If yes can you imagine it with him? or are you just want to have fun? I guess I wouldn´t get involved with my teacher / professor cause it can cause too much trouble. Plus I don´t think I have too much in common with someone who is 20 years older than me.  But you have to decide for yourself. |
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Post by hellanvodka on Apr 15, 2007 16:25:16 GMT 3
hehe...... sounds like typically Northern American style-----an old man's "vactional romance"..... Don't fall in the trap...... i don't think he can provide you serious relationship or even marriage later on, maybe "having fun" is all he wants. it really depends on what you really want........ again its up to you. Do some research, is he married back home? has he got a " wedding band tan"? or has he got a gf (serious ones) at home? stuff....
sorry, hope you wont get offensed by my words, maybe i am not good at discussing these things and being too "scientific" .......
my best wishes to ya young beautiful woman......
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Post by Dina on Apr 15, 2007 17:21:17 GMT 3
thanx girls really! i tought a lo and i'm sure i don't wanna get involved coz i wanna have fun!but definitely not with him yes i've heard that he was going to marry but the bride left a day before the wedding!but really i don't think he and me have the same priorities in life, and plus i think i dated him just becoz of his Mcsteaness and above all coz he's my teacher and i'm caring about my future coz it's a bit weird in the medicine circle!unfortunately only the ones who are involved in can understand what i'm talking about!and definitely now that i'ce calmed down i'm just gonna try to make him understand that it's not possible easily!coz i've never treated guys this way,ya know!i'm the kind of girl who dates and never gets involved emotionnally i'm too busy for this!i'm definotely not a good girl to date i usually broke hearts and never gets broken hearted!so it's an additionnal reason for me to not date him, looks like he had a bad experience before he doesn't need it with a student!so thanx girls!really!it's gonna be terribly weird with him for what remains in the scholar year!
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Post by Giselle on Apr 19, 2007 19:45:16 GMT 3
Ok dina let me tell you something, in a few years you are probably going to suffer what in Grays anatomy is Cristina, burke and the teacher...WEIRD?.so I tell you this, if u feel like having fun with him go ahead but if not...ur looking for something serious then don't it depends on what stage of your life you are right now. If he dates you he probably dated other students, I had a teacher like that who wanted to probably date my friend and we found out he does it with other students...naughty bastard! so go and watch that show and you tell me what would you do....
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Post by iman on Apr 19, 2007 23:03:45 GMT 3
hello everyone how are you?? i have missed coming on tgfr i went to New Zealand for two weeks and have been really busy since coming back!!1!!! and i am sick of my assignments so i thought i would come and say hello!!! dina......i have a bit of advice too.......if you do have a relationship with your teacher and in a few weeks decide that its not actually working out and YOU decide to cool it off. How will he react??? will he be so pissed off that this will affect your work/?? or your results?? he may seem quite cool and collective now but when a guy doesnt get what he wants he can be pretty angry and spiteful (just like girls) so all im saying is be careful and ask yourself is it worth it?  ? xxxx |
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Post by Dina on Apr 19, 2007 23:09:13 GMT 3
oh Giselle honey i've made him understand that i didn't want to involve with him in anything but professional coz we're not from the same generation and i wanted to respect as the pig doctor and teacher he's coz we're not looking for the sames fo right now as i wanna be a surgeon and enjoy life coz i'm still young and he needs someone who looks for the sames as him!he understood and agreed t keep it friendly!
so thanks for the advice and oh my gosh I'm just proud you're comparing to some weirdo fro GA!i'm getting famous and having an excitting life!seriously i hope i won't have the same crazy life as them!
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Post by Alya10 on Apr 20, 2007 16:50:49 GMT 3
sorry, for chipping in girls, but I've been reading this for a while and here's my piece like davis said, he too sounded too cheesy for my taste LOL, maybe it's just me but that sentence of "I always get what I want" seems like straight from a Danielle Stees paper back novel Too me it sounded like an overgrown brat demanding to have his toy. Sorry dina, I'm not criticizing you or anything. Like someone said if you want to have fun only, go ahead, because seriously that's all this sounds like, just some guy wanting to have fun and nothing else. As for the career part, I understand the bit about not wanting to antagonize him because he might have some say in your career in the future and bla,bla, but still, if you really want to have a solid career I'm not sure involvement with a teacher is the best way... other feelings other than the professional start getting in the way and not always for the best... kisses and good luck  |
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Post by Giselle on Apr 20, 2007 19:01:53 GMT 3
Hey Iman! I'm glad ur back, as u could see Michael is back at the joint and that really sux! here we are once again, until when are they going to keep us with the suffering! I was waiting for something more juicy for the finale but what the hell...as you can see for my pics I have changed loves, now I'm all about LOST will keep watching PB but still Josh and Matt are some sexy fellas...can't wait for next Wednesday to see what happens....sent u a PM...
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Post by Dina on Apr 21, 2007 17:46:36 GMT 3
oohh girls really thanx for all yar wise advices! now i'm really no more interested by him!we agreed on no more dating and it's better this way!we'll stay in the teacher-student state!i hope!
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Post by hellanvodka on Apr 23, 2007 18:34:43 GMT 3
As a Russian myself, not sure what should I be saying.....Certainly, its noy going to be a good news, Boris Yelstin passed away! I will be seriously missing his cheer to our Davis Cup team! May his soul stay sin peace. abcnews.go.com/International/story?id=3067497&page=1April 23, 2007 ¡ª Boris Yeltsin, the former president of Russia who once stood atop a tank in Moscow and spoke defiantly against a conservative coup, has died, according to The Associated Press. He was 76. |
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Post by Alya10 on Apr 23, 2007 19:23:46 GMT 3
As a Russian myself, not sure what should I be saying.....Certainly, its noy going to be a good news, Boris Yelstin passed away! I will be seriously missing his cheer to our Davis Cup team! May his soul stay sin peace. abcnews.go.com/International/story?id=3067497&page=1April 23, 2007 ¡ª Boris Yeltsin, the former president of Russia who once stood atop a tank in Moscow and spoke defiantly against a conservative coup, has died, according to The Associated Press. He was 76. Yes, I just heard it  May he rest in peace... |
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Post by Annie on Apr 23, 2007 20:36:52 GMT 3
God rest his soul...he may have done many things to this country a lot of people wouldn't approve of but we have to thank him for making tennis such a big deal here and for always supporting our guys and girls no matter what....
Rest in peace...
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